Twenty-nine percent of all people age 30-34 have never been married, so you have lots of company. What can you do about it? Plenty! (1) Get online in some dating sites with a fabulous profile and some great pictures. Reach out to potential guys on dating sites with a short, fun and flirty email. Don't write a second time; if he does not respond then let him go. There are plenty of men online who will come after you once you introduce yourself.

(2) Change up your routine and give yourself some free blocks of time to let someone else into your life. No doubt you have your schedule down, and it might include a rigid routine of the gym five days a week, classes at other times, and regular nights or weekend brunch with your friends. If you don't have any room in your schedule for a new man, you likely won't meet one. Change your schedule around a bit, drop some activities and hobbies for a while and add new ones.

Go out alone sometimes instead of always with your big group of girls. Big groups of girls are almost impossible for men to approach, so go out with just one or two friends and look for men who seem to be looking for you. Make yourself available and have some time to give them, and they will come your way. (3) Give yourself some confidence through fantasy. Instead of believing that there are no men out there or you will never marry or have a baby, let yourself believe

Imagine the details of those available men; what they are wearing, how they are smiling at you, what their backgrounds are and what they are looking for. Imagine it is you. When you see the details in your mind you instill confidence in yourself that this is not a fantasy; this is real and can and will be real in your life. Confidence is an attractive trait; men are drawn to it. Do not go out on the town without putting your confident detailed dream scene in your head.